Privacy----A word dat ensures u,giving u a world made only by u & with dat it gives u the access 2 dat world.On a mundane plane if we analyse privacy then the components dat we'll get will be dat of -cell phones,bank accounts,wallet,passwords to various electronic devices,& lastly privacy of a couple.But wat actually privacy is???????
Privacy literally means a place of seclusion,solitude,retreat.Now done with the dictionary meaning.Lets apply it in our real life.Above mentioned things r violated by other persons,but sumtimes we let others 2 violate them or say we ourselves tell them about our private things.I guess 2 make it more simple we need 2 classify privacy (a la classification of plants).
-----There r certain things which we wanna keep 2 ourselves no matter wat,in this catagory all the electronic devices can be included besides ur personal things.Violation of these rings the bell & u take action against them immediately.
-----Violation of ur world dat's been made by u, for u, it's kinda ur reflection.There r sum people who want 2 enter in this world but denied entry.This is the time when u want 2 be urself in luv with.
So, basically privacy can be defined better with refernce to its violation.
We've heard people often say "Its private!" & then they move 2 sum secluded area to talk about the private thing.So, wat left wasn't private but a secret b/w two people.
So, is it the secret which's private or the private thing which turned into a secret remains a question.Same thing goes with the word "personal" the word itself reflects its being attached to the person,then y share it with sum1 else.So, the next time u say private or personal think for a sec. b4 hand.
Ending with the words thing,lets now come 2 the inner privacy of a person.
Its more 2 do with thoughts.There r times when u wanna analyse over sumthing & 2 do dat u detach urself from the world.Wat they say "I need sum space" in a relationship is true 2 the roots.Space meaning the freedom 2 think, to express urself,to do wat u feel like.Now a new word has entered "freedom".Freedom means in simple words doing wat u want though it's its limitations too.Lets not forget privacy now.
Marriage takes a toll on individual privac of a person.& this happens with both the sexes though a bit more with the fairer sex.Specially women tends to sacrifice their wishes,their dreams,theirhabits,hobbies-everything.Ask a couple dat whether their bank accounts & its details r known 2 each others,or password to their computers & Voila! The answer would be in affirmative.Though 2day's younsters r catching on to not revealing their personal things to an extent & dats gud.I mean wat's the need to check on ur spouse's cell memory or net history.Anyways u can't end this topic but surely the solution lies in basic things like be alarmed & attentive & never sacrifice ur individuality for anyone.U R UR OWN GUARD.